No Pun Intended ;)

Those who know me personally must be thinking, "Yeah it's about time that this prick came to this topic ;) :P. Those of you who don't know me, to summarise I would say that, I am a percher of laughter (the way to achieve that doesn't matter ;)).

Well what motivated me to write this post is that, that everyday I see or come across people who are either pessimistic or a victim of time & situation (aren't we all). On second thought, why in hell do I attract these kinda people, probably coz I like to make people smile so GOD must be like, here son do what makes you happy and have a bunch of pessimistics. Now I know it's not possible to be positive all the time but you also can't stay perpetually negative either.

Now this post is not about cracking double meaning, sexually abusive, and racists jokes. Although do share some of them with me ;). No, it's about being happy and making other people around you happy.

If I ask you what is happiness, then you would probably say "if I get that promotion, I would be happy", "if I get that long pending raise, I would be happy", "if I get married to that special someone, I would be happy", or "if I get selected for that job or college, I would be happy". But this is not the generic definition of being happy, these are just your wishes and wishes are endless. I guess that you've figured it by now, if not, well then I would suggest you to grow up, observe and analyse your life and the world around you. Wishes are like water and our age is like a vessel. As we grow up, the shape of our vessel changes and so does our wishes.

As someone rightly said, happiness is a state of mind, it's a choice, it's derived from within. Now if you observe closely, the lines which I just wrote, you would find that none them says or even hints towards fulfilment of your wishes. They point towards your inner self, your soul. Oh yeah, now I am getting all spiritual :P :). Jokes apart, if you think that certain achievement is going to give you happiness then you are highly mistaken my friend. You know as they say that there is nothing like conditional love, similar to that there's no conditional happiness. Think about it, if you bind your happiness with some tangible or materialistic entity then logically your happiness would end at the moment you acquire/achieve that entity. Now why would you want to end something which is of paramount importance in all of your life by attaching it with something which is ever changing? Binding sounds stupid, right. Now you would ask, then how in hell we gonna be happy or are we ever gonna be happy? The answer to that is very simple, you see, beauty lies in simplicity ;) :). Don't invest in things, invest in experiences. For it is only these experiences that will give you true happiness. Smile with what you have right now. Be satisfied with yourself. Now I am not saying to shove up all your dreams and become a saint, no. Don't stop dreaming (I already told you that in my previous post). Give it your best to make that dream a reality but, even if you don't get it then please don't be sad. Rather be satisfied that you dared to dream something and even tried achieving it. Many of us don't even have the guts to go after our dreams coz we are afraid of failure. So be happy that you were fearless enough to follow your dreams. Now I am sure that in the pursuit of your dreams you must've got some learning which would, who knows, help you out in your future in some way. So please don't be sad coz your dream was shattered. Be happy, be a believer, be hopeful and don't loose your smile even if you are surrounded by 1000s of foes or worries. Nothing is for forever, nothing stays the same so why are you worrying yourself to death. Live your life, be happy, do things which makes you happy & always keep smiling ;) :)..