GOD it feels so good to be back again. Please let me breathe here for a moment and let me have this moment of satisfaction of writing again something after sooooo long. Hope you like this as well.
So this is not the storyline of the latest Terminator Genisys movie. Although the trailer looks interesting. But before we drift off of topic, let me tell you what this post is about. This post is dedicated to all those people who judge others without knowing their story. It is also dedicated to those people as well who have come in contact with these so called presumptionators, so this post is basically for everyone ;).
It is the innate sense of us humans to know what we don't know. It is this curiosity that has made us who we are today, all those inventions and discoveries are the result of this sense of curiosity. But somewhere in between this sense evolved into the urge of knowing it all. And for the questions that remained unanswered, we created stories around them just to put our curious mind to rest. Otherwise our mind would make us go crazy for the questions that remains unanswered. Now becoming a creative thinker is not a problem as long as you are not offending or hurting the sentiments of any person, group, or community. But many of us don't understand this and end up cooking stories about others just to keep our half ass brain satisfied. In today's world of Instant messaging, smart searches, Facebook, WhatsApp, and instant online shopping we have become more mechanical in nature and have lost that emotion of having empathy towards each other. Somewhere we've lost the ability of being human.
So what can we do about it? It's simple, be curious to find out the answers of things whose answer are not known to you like why are you here for? This is an eternal question we all should be asking ourselves, what's the purpose of our lives? I am very sure it's certainly not coz you have to know everything about everyone else. Be careful to keep that curiosity only to THINGS. Be happy and satisfied with yourself and your life. Just coz someone doesn't want to share something with you, doesn't gives you the right to presume things about them.
For people who are currently under fire from these presumptionators I've just one suggestion, be calm. Your reaction acts as fodder for the fires created by them. Give them sometime and act as possum, they'll soon loose interest in you and would eventually move on. Having said that, if they intrude into your life and derogate you a lot, then you have the full right to defend yourself and your self-esteem.
If you can't support in the upliftment of any person then avoid stepping on them as you never know when you would fall down. Don't be pathetic, be empathetic. Be humble and respectful towards others. Try to be a positively better version of yourself. At least try to include these things into your life for some peace of mind ;) :)..
